Do you care what others think ?
I listen to people but that doesn’t mean that I’m going to take their advice .
I stay alert and aware but I don’t take things personal so if a person does something I don’t like I’ll hold them accountable and move on .
People are going to talk about you regardless .
Imaging going through life reacting to every little thing people say and do .
Don’t tolerate disrespect however not everything deserves your attention your time and your energy .
Sometimes people do things to distract you .
Seeing how short life is my energy is being invested into places and people and the things I love.
Anything or any person that I am not connected to does not deserve my time and energy .
Before we came on planet earth humanbeings communicated and will continue on when we are dead and gone .
Life is a cycle which means what ever you do comes back in some way shape or form.
Do you not think that the people talking about you don’t have people talking about them ?
There’s nothing you can do to control people’s actions and thoughts however your thoughts and actions .
Why do you focus on other people so much ?
On this journey we will meet new people and encounter new challenges .
People talk about me too for the simple fact that they are insecure and intimidated .
The way people think and feel about others is a reflection of themselves .
Shouldn’t you be focusing on yourself and your loved ones ?
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I love when they talk about me .
When you allow people’s compliments or negative sentiments to affect you you are giving them power and control over you .
When people compliment me I take it with a grain of salt .
The same people complimenting you today will be the same people demonizing you tomorrow .
As long as you know who you are and what you stand for that’s all that should matters .
Always focus on you and what ever else it is that brings you joy and happiness .
you want to me and getawày with it . It’s guaranteed the situation will get addressed by me in a heartbeat
Don’t allow the distraction to become your focus .
When the distraction becomes the focus it’s game over .
People will do things intentionally to mis lead you .
Everyone has an agenda including me but the difference is my motive .
I don’t trust people so therefore nothing they do surprises me .
Some people think I am crazy for the simple fact that I move differently and keep to myself.
Pursuing your goals and dreams is perceived to be weird in the eyes of most people .
If you look around your town your city or your neighborhood you’ll notice most people operate the same way .
I know grown adults that buckle and fall victim to peer pressure .
Very few people think for themselves and that’s ok .
I am content being labelled a weirdo or a freak .
As long as I know I am on the opposite side of the fence as the majority I’m fine .
Being a follower is for losers .
People smile in each other’s faces just to turn around and talk about the person behind their back .
I call them back stabbers
They see what you have going on and secretly admire you but don’t have the courage acknowledge you neither do they have the courage to pursue their dreams .
Ignore the signs and pay the price
If you ignore the signs you must pay the price .We all know right from wrong so there’s no excuse for making bad decisions . I made bad decisions in my life however I made sure I owned up and took responsibility of my actions .
Analyze people
Not everyone is genuine and not everyone is out to cause you harm however most will .
Be weary of people no matter what .
Learn how to Differentiate
The spirit of discernment is going to give you the ability to spot and pinpoint things they eyes cannot see . People get upset with me because they can deceive me .
If I was gullible (naive ) they’d love me but since they can’t take advantage of me they hate me .
Most people love people that they can take advantage of .
I read people’s energy
I read into people’s vibe real quick .
I listen to how you talk and I observe how you carry yourself .
People are good at putting on a front but majority of the time their words don’t match their actions .
People will do any and everything that’s perceived to be good just to win you over .
When people start acting too nice alarm bells rings off in my mind .
I have seen and experienced alot so I definitely know what to look for and who not to associate with . The lesson is the most important Drop your books lose your lessons.
Every experience is meant to teach us something but if we don’t learn the lesson more than likely we’ll repeat the mistake . I learned the hard way a few times however I Wisened up by learning and also holding people accountable .
This is why it’s important to learn the lesson when people disrespect you or try to tarnish your reputation or do anything unethical for they will circle back.
They circle back after a period of time hoping you have forgotten so that they can give you the same treatment again.
When they come back and see that youdeclining their offers they realize that you aren’t stupid like they thought you was .
Some people will play you for stupid
People only do what you allow them to do so don’t hesitate to cut ties with people and move on.
I trust my instincts and I trust that most people will do things that I dislike so that I a don’t get caught off guard .
Nothing surprises me
In this day and age and world we live in anything is possible .
When some one does something incredible that was thought to be impossible to me it’s normal .
Say on the flip side a person does something hideous It won’t surprise me .
I am not allowing myself to be taken for a joy ride .
Somethings do get my attention but nothing is going to distract me from doing the things I love .
I do things that are considered abnormal in the eyes of society .
As long as I know who I am and what I’m doing that’s all that matters .
Conclusion
Like I said people talk shit all the time but it doesn’t matter to me . Disrespect and opinions are different . You can say what you want about me but I wouldn’t allow you to say anything .