Redefining success
You are a successful person and don’t let anyone tell you different .
You might be in rut in your life right now but that doesn’t mean you are not successful .
Successful people have a background like everyone else .
In fact had we not endured hardship or end swe might not be a testimony to change today .
Success starts with you .Knowing what you want to do and charting a path in that direction will give birth to success.
We have to stop measuring solely on material .
If you want a gold medal at the Olympics and train for it ,you end winning the gold medal that is success.
But for someone that has not achieved that yet they might start questioning themselves for not having made a personal accomplishment when they see others succeeding .
https://www.success.com/3-things-successful-people-do-on-the-daily/
It takes alot of work to achieve anything worthwhile so stop drawing comparisons.
And Yes The definition of success is subjective.
Some people define success as buying a house getting married or having a family.
Just remember your goals should align with the outcome you that you want to achieve .
Learn to appreciate the Blessings that you have .
Do you realize your thoughts and actions manifest in the universe ?
So Think about that when you are being ungrateful like I do sometimes.
Life is a gift and it’s unfortunate that there are people that don’t value it .
There is always an opportunity to learn and grow so I remain optimistic that more people will come to their senses .
I do hope By the time you finish reading this article your outlook on life is going to be a little bit better .
When I wake in the morning I read business or socialmedia books .
And why do I read every morning?
While you are on the journey to success just be mindful of what you feed your mind .
Now On to my next point .
The moment that you start getting a deeper appreciation of yourself is the moment doors will open up .
We must not settle but be appreciative of what we do have so that we don’t neglect the things we have already achieved .
Living a happy healthy life is a good thing .Sickness and happiness doesn’t discriminate between the rich and the poor.
Being happy is comes from with in being appreciative of life empathy.
You can’t take things granted.
Think about that new toy you got that you no longer play with . When it was new your level of excitement was really high ,now that the newness has worn off you no longer use it.
In life we do the same thing . We tend to forget that every day we wake up gives us a new lease on life .
Nothing is more precious than life, it is a gift that many of us should cherish.
sometimes we allow the less important things to distract us and that is when we get confused.
Remember happiness and a clean bill of health are priceless .
• Money
• Cars
• Jewelry
• Woman
• Men
Is an added bonus
You can’t go through life unhappy and expect things to work out in your favor.
You are what you attract and what you attract is a direct result of what you do and believe .
Thinking is powerful and it manifest your inner desires .
That what you think is what you shall do because your mind is already pre occupied .
Even the idea is enough to manifest hence why we have to be critical thinkers.
Negative thinking vs Positive thinking
Positive thinkers work through difficulty. They know and understand the world is not a perfect place .
The positive thinker is not expecting the world to sympathize and stop for them .
They know that success is a process not a one stop shop .
Even in the midst of difficulty the constructive thinker is optimistic.
The positive people get mad like everyone else but they channel their anger differently.
The negative thinker
• Plays victim
• Lives in denial
• They are manipulative
• Blames people
• Looks for handouts
• Likes to dominate
The negative thinker is not necessarily a bad person but it is how they deal with their situations.
Instead of looking for a solution they drive off of emotion .
They like adding fuel to the fire even when they know better .
And this Is not a story to bash people .
Now on to my tips
Money doesn’t define happiness
Don’t let money control you.Happiness is being healthy alive and enthusiastic about the present moment.
Good Health and Happiness is what attracts wealth to people .Allocate time into things that make you happy .
When you are happy and free you can do miraculous things .
If on the other you are chasing financial bonuses , competing to win a prize you will end up disillusioned and frustrated if you are unhappy ,especially when things don’t go as planned.
Money doesn’t quench your thirst neither does it solve all you problems
Focus on value
Don’t chase women or men ,chase the vision. Add value to your life and other peoples as well because being selfless is an act of love too.
No I am not saying to allow people to use you and abuse you but be open minded.
Work on your goals
Every single day you should find time to work on your craft as Will Smith would say “beat on your craft.”
Any goal that you want in life should be a priority .
Appreciate where you are at on your journey?
No one starts out at the top and if someone does get a better start than you so be it , life is a journey not a destination .
Closing
Let’s start focusing and appreciating life info itself. I know that it gets rough sometimes and I am no stranger to difficulty.
In the midst of the struggle there is opportunity and hope .As long as you have life there is hope .
Thank you for travelling this journey with me .
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Bless you !