Today we are going to talk about leadership qualities and empowerment
When people present themselves as leaders they try to sell you on what, how and why.
Then after the person or persons get into the position their attitude changes.
And this is because they had other plans in play .
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And you were never apart of their plans .
You are a pawn on the chess board .
Do not allow yourself to be used as a weapon of mass destruction.
It is not in your best interests to let another person mislead you especially when you know better.
Some of our heads get real big when we get into positions.
Some run with the title thinking we have arrived.
That is a recipe for disaster
Leadership is more than a title. Leadership is about inspiring and genuinely having the interest of your followers.
Actions show me everything.
You say one thing then turn around and do another.
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That is a contradiction unless it is morally beneficial.
Sooner or later the people will get tired of you ,even the ones aiding and abetting you.
Before you became leader you behaved one way. Now that you have the position you have changed .
Your not in it for the people you represent.
That type of behavior is destructive.
That is not leadership.
There are people in positions of leadership manipulating their followers.
And there are people in these groups knowingly going along with the folly.
Then there are others that are naive and or gullible.
At some point in time you have to wake up and hold the persons leading you accountable.
You have to hold yourself accountable too
Bob Marley famous song goes as follows(you can fool some people sometimes but you can’t fool all the people all the time)
If you are are guilty of manipulating people you might want to pause and reflect for minute
Are you willing to deal with the
Repercussions?
And the reason why I am asking is because some people can’t deal with their karma .
The hurt,pain that you inflict on others will come back to haunt you .
The sins of the for-fathers fall on the children. This is why you need to repent and stop doing with the nonsense.
Do not let the sins grow on you and linger .
You do not want your name to be stained .
Living the high life off of the backs of the people should incentivze you to uplift them
But no you choose not to
There is no sense in half stepping
If I was to water down this message my delivery and intent would be less impactful.
I see it ,anylyze it and call it as is.
It is time to wake up to the realities of life .
Not everbody that helps is a friend .
The enemy comes in different shapes and sizes.
Trickery is rampant but if you are diligent enough you can detect the plot from miles away.
Some people will use you by any means necessary.
They can trick you into thinking they are an ali .
But here is how you can sense and decipher bad energy.
(Judge the person by their actions)
Even at that point you don’t stop.
Because people pump fake too.
Here is another mechanism.
Being highly emotional leaves the door open for licks if you confide in the wrong people.
Not every one “helping” you wants has your best interests.
There are people that will help you just to advance a negative aganda.
But you won’t know unless look under the carpet.
The dress code is sometimes used as a mask .
To throw you off.
People prey on people .
Be careful who you talk to about your problems.
There are people that will lead you on a wild goose chase.
Not knowing who is who leaves the door open for licks.
And when you are veulnerable the enemy steps in .
The enemy comes and disguises his and herself and they have a hidden agenda.
Keep in mind it is not so much having an agenda is a bad thing but what you do with your position of authority .
We can sit here and talk for days about what we are going to do.
If you do not have plans involving your followers then why do it ?
If you exploit people to advance yourself then you are not uplifting them you are weak .
You are not a leader.
Just a person full of folly .
As an individual being mislead you have to take ownership.
How much longer are you going to allow yourself to be treated like a tool ?
People only do what you allow them to .
There comes a time when you have to put your foot down.
Sometimes things linger on because of a lack of self worth .
Any persons lacking self love is sure to tumble .
People prey on the mentally and emotionally weak.
Now when I speak of “mentally weak” I am not talking about the mentally challenged.
Being emotionally weak is a way of giving The opportunity to the enemy .
The enemy comes to steal kill and destroy .The enemy never stops plotting .
This not to say that people can’t be trusted .I am saying this to keep you aware of what is going on.
And I am urging you not to allow your
- relationships
- financial status
To impair your vision.
I know what it is like having dark clouds hanging over my head but I made up my mind and persevered.
I wouldn’t allow myself to confide in random persons .
There is no way that I am going to put my emotions on my sleeve and leave myself open
I have to stay vigilant.
I have my own mind and there is no way I am going to have some one sell me a dream.
Definently not logical or in my best interest
But keep this in mind .
All troubles are temporary
Nothing is guaranteed in life .
knowing your selfworth and having the will power not allowing yourself to be mislead.
And even if you do have the occasional slip up all hope is not lost .
Trusting yourself and being wise enough to know who to trust.
You have to be sure that The person you are spilling your guts to has a sincere interest in you.
Because People will listen to you to just to be pokey .
So if you leave thyself open a predator will exploit your weakness.
Sometines it hard to detect if you are not spiritually in-tune with yourself .
They come in disguise .In.other words the person can be a public figure a family member .
You just never know but you can pick those ones out if your aware of yourself
When you are aware you are alert and ready for the avalanche.
Get in tune with yourself .The people that prey on others pick up on spirits hence why those kinds individuals walk straight pass me .
My actions show what I stand for .There is no need to say a word.
There are people whom I do not give the time of day.
I am not taking on their spirits .The spirit of manipilation and defeat.
Grumbling about life ,looking and blaming everyonelse but them selves .
The best place to look for change is in thyself not in others.
That is why I love me time .Getting acquainted with me .
I know myself, love myself .I know my worth. I do not go seeking love and attention
I know what triggers me .
There are people who I talk to on different levels.
Some people I talk to about sports .I do not take on or engage in conversations about their personal lives.
There are some people that I see in passing . I speak and keep moving.
There are some individuals that I know of that know of me that I say very few words to if any at all.
I am not giving them permission to jump into my kingdom
That is why it is nothing wrong with being promt and diplomatical.
As long as the opposite knows what it is up front then there are barriers.
If you give them opportunity to peep in on you they will.
They will get comfortable and start feeling themselves.
You give them confidence when you allow them into your domain .
While at the same time they are lining you up.
Rest assured something Is brewing up.
Most cases things do not work out in your favor.
Who can you blame but yourself ?
You can express and release without jeopardizing your spirit and sanity.
Be wise enough to know when to back away
Take ownership of your doings both good and bad.
Blaming others will make it worst .
Blaming people is like exposing wounds to germs.
On the other hand you can hold people accountable.
If you are involved with a person in any form of a relationship you might as well hold each other to account.
The lack of accountability is the demon that keeps a bad leader where he or she is.
You are trusting that persons so your life is somewhat in their hands.
And if you allow them to they will run all over you no questioned asked.
You see the people leading you know that you are naive .
And they laugh at you behind your back.
They know you are gullible.
So all they have to do is paint a narrative to suit your ego.
They are very good at that.
They give you little bits here and there to keep you quite while they push their agenda.
You are not apart of the equation.
As long as you are stuck in that mindset you will never see the light .
Because One thing leads to another .
The wool will get pulled over your eyes in so many ways that you would’t realize it.
If you are walking around clueless as to who you are and what you stand for you better wake up.
You do not want to drift too far from home .
Starting today take the time to reflect on your life.
Are you happy with the current form of leadership that you are witnessing today ?
Do you not think you are a leader ?
Why can’t you trust yourself to lead ?
And this is not to say do not open up.
At some point you have to release the tension ortherwise you will explode and create bigger problems.
Which means more work cleaning up the mess in your life.
So any way you can offset against stress you should do it.
I know the day to day runnings of life gets hectic.Stressing over bills ,food ,rent mortgage.
Sometimes you can plan ahead so when troubles pop up you are in position to capitalize.
That way you do not leave the door open for the enemy to get in .
In life there are things you cannot prepare for because they happen unexpectedly.
But that is not a reason not to prepare moreso a reality of life .
Some of lifes lessons are painful.
Many times we bring unnecessary stress on ourselves.
We go seeking love in all the wrong places.
The first thing we have to do is love thyself.
People will love you not because of who you are but for what they can get .
You end up hurt in the long-run.
You have to guard your heart ,soul and mind .
The mind is your sacred place .Be aware of who and what you allow to occupy that space.
Sometimes letting somebody in your spiritual space is easy but detaching yourself from that person is hard.
Because you became attached to something or somebody that you thought was apart of you.
Do not give yourself away .(You can act like you trust people but you do not have to.
Conclusion
You know where you want to be and how you are going to go about accomplishing it .I cannot tell you who to run with .
You have to make decisions for yourself.
Shout out to me loud and clear in the comment section below.