Never allow people money or bad experiences to control your thoughts and feelings .
Love is a feeling and those feelings are bound to change .
Don’t be attracted to compliments .
People’s opinions do not control you unless you allow them to .
It is your perception of life that is going to shape your reality.
In life there are always casualties so you have to be strong minded and creative .
Loving yourself is paramount but people that seek validation don’t value their lives .
When people know they can form an opinion of you and control the narrative about you they will use it against you .
The only way a person can control the narrative of you is if you submit and wear your emotions on your sleeve .
When you know who you are and what you stand no one can pull you out of alignment .
Self control is the best control however when you control your ego and emotions you are a master .
If you are emotionally driven people will use your own forces against you .
Rage and uncontrolled anger clouds your vision .
When you are mentally and emotionally unstable people will push your buttons.
I had to learn how to control my anger because it cost me to lose out on some good opportunities .
Still to this day I get mad but not mad to the point I become physically violent .
When you go into a state of anger and outrage you disturb your spirit of peace and happiness .
After the dust settles and you think about it you realize you could have handled the situation better but by then the damage is done and all you can do is learn .
What is even worst is when you let things build up and then explode .
Some People are walking around society traumatized and un-healed and that is dangerous .
Whenever you are having issues you should release the stress before it builds up .
Most people deny that a problem exist because of their pride.
If you take a soda can and shake it up it will explode .
If you are dealing with abuse and aren’t getting help to deal with it you will become an abusive too .
Nothing is wrong with asking for help if you need it .
Yes there are ways of dealing with people without jeopardizing your freedom or disrupting your inner peace .
It is the way you go about things that matters .
How you deal with your issues is going to determine whether you are weak or mature.
Making hasty decisions can cost you .
There are people that lost their families their lives and their fortunes for maki g irrational decisions. .
Things can change with in a matter of seconds .
Every day, every second we make choices,so you can make a choice to do good or you can make a choice to do bad .
There is always a result for your action or inaction .
Results can work in your favor or go against you based on what you do .
We all have choices to make.
Yes mistakes will be made but some mistakes are more costly than others . If you go down the road and decide to rob a liquor you have to face the consequences . G
You can try blaming the devil to but in reality you made a choice and now you have to deal with the consequences.
The choices you make in life will help to shape your reality .
A mature self loving person isn’t going to make choices that are going to jeopardize their livelihood and freedom.
This doesn’t mean you won’t stand up for something ,it means you are aware intelligent and wise .
Some people are radical and out spoken and emotionally driven .
If you cannot control your emotions you can’t control anything hence why We see so many violent crimes in society . When ever you see some one lash out in rage there an underlying issue .
No one lashes out for the sake of it .
If I feel myself getting to that point I reign myself in .
You have to recognize your trigger points first .
If you haven’t trained yourself to recognize your trigger points how can you stop yourself from bursting into rage ?
Let people know in advance
Don’t waite for a situation to escalate before you address it . If you know you don’t like something say something before you get angry and frustrated .
Manipulate
Some people will guilt trip you for putting yourself first, they will call you a selfish narcissist and everything else in the book for putting yourself first .
When people see that you are not compliant like a sheep they’ll despise and castigate you to try control the narrative.
Embrace the criticism
If you don’t have any goals you would need to get it together otherwise you will be a statistic . I made up my mind years ago that I won’t be a statistic . I made up my mind that I will be productive for my betterment and my Sons.
Wether you like it or not people will demonize you .
Yes you need thick skin in but criticism becomes motivation when you know and love yourself .
When you are happy with you there isn’t a thing any one can say to upset you or manipulate your feelings. No you shouldn’t tolerate abuse which means you should set boundaries .
Conclusion
Be in tuned with your spirit and listen your intuition . Control your emotions at all times .