You can’t be a prisoner of people’s opinions and expect to proper .
We control our thoughts and our actions not people’s opinions .
People are going dislike you regardless and will use psychology on you just to manipulate you .
So yes they’ll down play your progress to try and convince you that you aren’t doing as good as you think you are .
I am here to help you break the cycle .because you are a unique powerful being .
Any dream you think about can be achieved if you are willing to put in the work so keep pushing on regardless and the noise will eventually sub side .
When you are focused confident ,self loving there’s nothing any one can do to shake you .
What ever we project on others is really a reflection of ourselves .
I have had people debate me publicly to sooth their ego and mask their insecurities .
When a person is insecure they’ll attack to see if they can penetrate your armour .
Imagine if I allowed people’s opinions to define me ?
People think am weird and abnormal for the simple fact that I am not a follower of their cult movement .
Embracing your uniqueness automatically sets you apart from the rest .
Don’t try and fit in . I know that you don’t want to ruffle feathers and want to play it’s safe but here is the catch 22
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Being a follower limits your growth and puts you in the shadows of others .
Do you want to live life in their shadows or do you want to be a trail blazer ?
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They will sabotage you
People that have given up on their selves like dictating to others .
They sometimes come across genuine but that’s just to get you comfortable enough to deceive you .
You can learn what not to do from a dummy .
Use wisdom and analyze people before you attempt to help them or take their advice .
Never underestimate a persons intentions .
Some people will do good by you for deceptive reasons
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Some people will be very supportive of you hoping that they can convince you to take on certain political religious and racial ideologies .
Yes I am speaking from experience .
Trust yourself
If you are a confident person you are an assertive person ,people that aren’t confident are unsure .
If you lack confidence I have the remedy for you.
The cure for a lack of confidence is in doing ,yes it’s that simple.
Repetition and learning gives you a tremendous amount of confidence and knowledge .
Don’t entertain toxic people
1 look at the word toxic and it brings terminologies like bad ,failure rude to my mind .
Those are broad terms so therefore I am going break the definition down for you .
When you see people walking around complaining,blaming the system,looking for hand outs having a mindset of entitlement then you know they are toxic .
Toxic people have problems for every solution .
Those are the people that don’t want to be us accountable .
You owe it to yourself
Don’t walk around with the victims mindset.
Playing victim isn’t going to help you solve your problems
.Your problems will.always exist if you don’t tackle them .
No one walking the face of the earth is problem free , so don’t be ashamed of admitting your wrong doing be ashamed of not trying .
You can achieve what you want in life if you are willing to apply yourself in a positive manner
Having a good attitude will change your out look for your betterment .
I made some changes along the way because I was on a path of self destruction .
Conclusion
Yes people will attempt to do you wrong however the most dangerous enemy is the man and woman in the mirror .
The way you think and feel about yourself is the only thing that matters.