It all about your thoughts
Our thoughts can lead to actions if we decide to take action .
Not ever thought is revealed externally unless we decide to act .
Thoughts come to my mind but not ever thought is born into action .
You can have the worst thoughts come to mind and still conquer them .
We have been indoctrinated to think act and feel a certain way .
You are a unique individual as is every other being .
You have the power to change your current situation and all other situations you are dealing with .
A Decision is an action .
People think the way they think and that’s how it will always be .
People believe what they want to believe and that’s how it will always be. .
With that being said people will always have an opinion and that’s how it will always be.
Some people think that I am weird and some think that I’m great but at the end of the day I am responsible for my thoughts feelings ,actions and what I tolerate.
A person with morals wouldn’t allow them selves to be disrespected .
You have to set boundaries with people so that they know not to cross certain lines .
The way you carry your self says alot about you .
Even then people will still test you but that’s when you re-inforce .
When people know you don’t tolerate disrespect they’ll either respect you or distance themselves from you .
I am not advocating violence but you have to guard and protect your spirit at all same times .
Sometimes this means remaiing silent .
For me it’s a little bit easier dealing with critics because of my history .
The people talking about you don’t have a genuine concern about you or your health .
You have to keep tricking along otherwise you’ll be a victim of your circumstances .
People tend to leave people alone whom they know don’t give a shit about their thoughts and opinions .
I am one of those people .
Yes people approach me and for those that approach me wrongly there’s no remorse but more so deep regret.
I respect myself which means I wouldn’t allow any one to demean me or cheat me out of money .
I didn’t say be volatile and jeopardize your freedom unless of course that person becomes a threat .
On the other hand there are people doing things that are unethical, illegal that deserve to be ridiculed .
As long as you are walking upright you don’t have anything to worry about .
However when you aren’t true to yourself some one might say something that triggers your emotions and cause you to react negatively .
Even at that point you are in control of your re action .
I don’t have it all together however I’m doing my best to make sure that I correct my mistakes .
It’s time to realize how powerful you are so tap into the inner you .
Tapping into your inner you means loving yourself and having confidence in your abilities and trusting your instincts .
When my instincts tell me something I listen .
I know what it takes to overcome difficultly .
You should respect peoples personal boundaries but you don’t have to agree and respect their opinion .
I know what I said sounds crazy so I’ll explain what I mean in more detail .
Let’s say your having a conversation and the person says something divisive and you respectfully disagree .
Now let’s say you are having a conversation with a person and they start cursing you out and you proceed to correct and rebuke them .
At that point they have crossed the line so therefore you have the right to correct the person .
As a person with morals and Integrity you must not allow people and their opinions to define you .
Don’t walk through life feeling guilty and shamed for being you .
People will prosecute you just for being you .
I’ve had people demonize me for not being a follower but I know who I am so therefore I don’t follow I lead .
Only the insecure view you as a threat .
People that are confident in themselves don’t have time to be trying to convince people .
They’ll let the results do the talking .
The people talking about you aren’t confident with what they see in the mirror .
Furthermore they are going to talk regardless .
What everyone else thinks is what everyone else they thinks .
You can’t control their thoughts and actions however you have control over the direction you go in the future .
Furthermore opinions have been around long before we were born .
Your out look matters
Your perception of life is all that matters .
I’m not saying you shouldn’t learn however I’m saying people’s opinions and perceptions of you don’t define you .
Your attitude defines you .
The way you present your self in and out of the public eye says alot about you .
Don’t allow them to pull you out of character
Yes people will test you to get a specific reaction out of you.
In other words they’ll push your buttons hoping you’ll respond volguarly .
When you don’t respond in the manner that they was hoping you would it takes them for a loop .
Watch out for their manipulation tactics
People will use all sorts of tactics to baite you in . I’ve seen people support my business hoping that I’d conform to their ideologies and beliefs .
When they realized I wasn’t budging they withdrew their support and exposed themselves in the process of doing so .
Let them go
You don’t need any one in your life that’s not going to collaborate with you .
Some people are layed back and don’t have the drive to do anything progressive.
People like that you don’t need around you .
Some people have to be dismissed for the simple fact they aren’t an asset .
It’s not difficult to tell someone that you don’t need them .
I made up my mind many years ago that I’d make the changes needed to better myself
I decided to keep challenging myself even if it meant being in an uncomfortable position .
I am a optimistic person but rest assured I am prepared for the storms ahead of me .
Some might say I’m being pessimistic but in reality life is unpredictable.
In other words not ever day is a sunny day and not every day is a rainy day .
Being real with yourself self brings forth balance and proper perspective in your realm of reality .
What do I mean ?
We might experience similar things and have different out looks albeit traveling down similar paths.
We are the same in the sense of being human but unique as individuals .
Our taste buds likes and dislikes and feelings aren’t the same .
Summary
Life is about choices . Yes I’ve seen scenarios created where by the world was forced to comply with strict rules.
No matter what we are faced with we have choices .