It is easy to get discouraged when social media makes you think that every body else is winning .
People are out here capping .
You keep judging your success based on your assumptions of what you see other people achieving .
Every successful person has faced hardship .
Maybe you have been convinced to believe otherwise but I am here to tell you differently .
No one wins every single time in life .
That person you see winning has lost a few too however Some people only share their success stories .
The people sharing their success and failures are more trust worthy .
A person that is only posting their winnings is not being open with you .
You are doing better than you think you have but you have to stop making comparisons .
If you see some one winning learn from them instead of comparing yourself.
One things for sure you can find information to suit your narrative .
People will pander to you to your benefit their benefit or in a mutually beneficial way .
Some people don’t want to do things that are mutually beneficial because they know they wouldn’t be able to exploit you .
The People exploiting you are the ones selling the dream .
You shouldn’t be focused on what other people are doing unless you are learning from them .
When you focus your attention on the next person it becomes a distraction .
I went through it on social media so I am speaking from experience .
I thought I should’ve been doing a lot more but it in reality there is a season for every thing.
Everything happens in time so it’s either you be patient and work through it or give up .
I have seen lots of people ruin good things because they didn’t exercise discipline.
Being in a hurry will cause you to make unforced errors .
I was in a hurry a few short years ago and I paid the price .
Learn from others but don’t compare yourself to them .
One of the worst mistakes you can make is to comparing your journey to others .
You see other people accomplishing things then you start questioning why not you .
Do you not realize that God has special plans for your life ?
You might not get what you want now but things will materialize soon .
To be successful you need to embrace the good and the bad .
Don’t be in a hurry ,you will get to where you want to go but if you are if try to rush the process you might not make it at all .
Take it day by day step by step ,keep working on yourself.
Remember you are your own referee and the game ends when you blow the whistle.
Keep striving and applying yourself.
Even when you think you are not making progress you are making progress.
Give yourself a chance and stop comparing yourself to others .
You can’t predict the day or time your dreams will materialize so stop giving yourself time lines based on what the next person has achieved .
It’s ok to recognize what others have accomplished but not the point where you lose sight of your goals .
Do you know I have a few people trying to lure me in to join them ?
I have no interest or desire to partner up or collaborate or follow them.
I see people doing good things but I don’t count people’s pockets or blessings because it doesn’t benefit me .
Focusing on you is going to benefit you ,focusing on the next person doesn’t put money in your bank account or pay your bills .
Do realize that some people genuinely want to be apart of what you are doing .
Conclusion
If people want to follow you cool but don’t follow them . When you follow people they’ll persuade you to do everything else but take care of yourself. The direction you are heading in should be a priority .You cannot move forward in reverse .
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