.People are going to talk shit about you regardless of what you think and feel .
The way you think and feel about yourself is all that matters .
When you look in the mirror you see a reflection of your self .
We have to look from with in and be the change we wish to see instead of waiting for change .
Excuses don’t pay bills ,put food on your tables ot put money into your bank account .
Each and every one of you have something great with in you and it is your responsibility to manufacture the dream.
Either way you look at it you will feel the pinch at some point in your life .
We get comfortable with the illusions of accomplishments .
People are not learning from their mistakes or other people’s mistakes .
I have an ego and pride too however I know how to co tain it .
I have pride meaning I have standards and morals however If I need assistance I will ask for help .
Don’t let your pride prevent you from getting the help you need ,had my pride got the best of me I wouldn’t be utilizing charities and food banks.
As long as what you are doing benefits your growth damn well do it .
You would be a lot further ahead today had you not been concerned with every one else and focused on yourself .
Even the people you associate with talk negative about you yet you think they like you .
Don’t be pokey getting caught up into people’s non sense
I love keeping to myself
Not chasing money and people is powerful .
Some people wake up every day just to chase others while at the same time lose themselves in the process
You have the gift
You have the gift of gab but don’t know how to use it to enrich yourself .
So this means all of you talkers can monetize your gifts podcasting, you tubing,blogging and consulting .
You have opportunities right in front of you but won’t take them because you are lazy .
You can achieve it
Don’t let no one discourage you from accomplishing your goal .
When people give up on their dream they’ll try to convince you to give up on yours .
They say misery loves company and I say miserable people love company .
Set the boundary set goals ,know your strengths and work on your weaknesses .
No one can stop you but you
Your right hand should know what your left is doing and that’s about it .
If you.have goal in mind go after it and yes there are people willing to make things more difficult for you hence why you need to work in silence and let the results do the talking.
The most persons can do is dispute your results however they cannot change what you have achieved .
Don’t doubt yourself
Self doubt creates confusion and chaos .
Being assertive sets you on a clear defined path to achieve your goal .
Assertive people know what they want and why they want it but If you aren’t confident in yourself others won’t be confident in you either .
Conclusion
Start leading by example and being the change you wish to see . Most of you are asking for change but aren’t willing to put in the work required to produce change .
Self reflect
I take time out to reflect on a regular basis .
It is easy to get sucked into the trap of working , paying bills. If you keep neglecting yourself soon enough it will catch up with you .