Be afraid of not facing your fears and failures
People like myself can motivate and inspire you .
The action is on you .
Like How is your outlook towards lifes lessons and hard times .
Hard times is Something we all face from time to time .
No one is immune to it .
Yet the one thing we do have control over is our attitude actions and reactions to situations .
I do understand that some of us are more tolerant than others.
Neither of us Handle situations the same .
Each of us have been blessed to be human and make mistakes.
The creator of the universe created us to withstand all that life throws at us.
Yes we fall short in our lives.
It our attitude towards change that makes a difference.
Some people fear making change even if it is beneficial .
You must not allow yourself to remain in the web of fear.
Let loose and set yourself free.
Fear is intimidating because you allow it to be.
Conquering fear to over come fear is but one thing but believing in yourself is another .
Self belief is the root of confidence .
Self belief breeds confidence .
You have to believe in your ability and all that you do.
Embrace the challenge that is before you .
As a matter of fact start treating fear like a bitch .
Remeber fear is an emotion .
In order for fear to take up residency in your place you have to give it permission.
You have the power over fear.
So even if you do feel fearful doesn’t mean you have to open the door .
Only by taking action you can overcome your insecurities.
When you allow fear to control you that is when problems start .
You are the source .
Dig deep with in yourself .
I have found that I have had the biggest come backs in life being at the bottom.
Usually this is when fear sets in and cônsoles a people.
Not for me one bit though.
I do not sit and waite for shit to occur before I decide to do something .
You can rest assure ,in times of difficulty I press even more .
I use hardship as fuel for my fire .
I refuse to allow failure and fear to send me for a loop.
You have to stay on course.
Even when The Road gets bumpy make the neccessary adjustments and hold on for the ride.
Had Michael Jordan given up do you think that he would he be the billionaire he is today ?
Yes or no ?
Look what Magic Johnson has had to endure in his life.
Michael, Magic are testiomonies of change faith and resiliênce.
With that being said you cannot give up the fight.
Anything worthwhile attaining is not easy .
Neither of us can predict failure or success.
Só there is no telling when and what will happen.
However You cannot go on living in fear.
Any person walking around fearful is not focused.
There are people that are fearful of people.
I mean terrífied.
And when you are like that you lose your power.
Be wise and vigilant at all times .
Be bold too.
You can overcome.
Embrace the present moment .
Challenge yourself.
Tãp into the greater you.
.Today might be hard, tomorrow will be better
But one thing for sure you can overcome .
You are in control .You must not allow failure to beat you into submission.
Even if you are down to your last dollar.
In actuality you are never without because the universe will provide you with everything you need.
When you are down and out you have the most power.
When you are at the bottom the only way to go is up.
In addition to that you have more leverage and negotiating power.
Being that you know what it is like being at the bottom you are going to navigate and benefit to the best of your ability.
So in essence fear is an asset.
Fear and failure are not the evil “monsters” that mankind make them out to be .
When you look at failure like an evil monster it deterres you.
You become hesitant to try new innovative things .
Then you wonder why you cannot grow .
There is no way you can make progress without making moves .
Thinking alone is not going to help.You need to take action
Thinking gives thoughts but your thoughts are no good without action .
Things run through your mind like what if this happened and so on .
So you end up stagnant .
There is nothing wrong with admitting to failure .
This brings me to my next point .
We as humans fear rejection because we set expectations on other people then when things fail to materialize things go A-Wall.
For you your fear might be that man or woman refusing to date or marry .
Rejection is apart of life .It is normal.
Do not be discouraged.
This is why I believe you should set expectations on yourself instead of over relying on other people .
Just So that you do not feel like a failure when things do not go as planned .
And you should not view thyself as a failure.
If You make a mistake just know that it is normal . You are human
Keep in mind some mistakes are more costly than others.
But a mistake is a mistake.
You have to get over your fears at some point in time .
Understanding what is causing the fear and identfying it is critical.
If you cannot pin point what is causing fear to rise up and control you then how are you going to move forward.
Rectfying the situation is important.Refusing to back down and adjusting to the storms of life is important too
You could only do so much at a time so be patient with yourself .
Trust yourself .
You are the one that has to face yourself in life.
People might get intimate and communicate with you on different levels but only you can change you.
It is you that has to get yourself over the hump.
I can give you all my knowledge but if you do not have the desire to tackle the obstacles on your path my input will not help.
You are on control of your destiny .
Think big stay focused.
Failure is small compared to the giant in you .Take it and toss it away.
You have to start thinking “I am going to conquer.”
Say to yourself (failure and fear will not control me)
Every game played ,lesson learned at some point in time was on your mind .
Even if you do not carry out the action of your thoughts the idea of the thought is enough to get your mind going.
If you have it in your mind to learn and grow then your actions will show that .
This is the one thing I want you to remember (fear feeds off of uncontrolled emotions)
Fear and failure is just what it is .
People often associate failure and success with winning and losing.
Hence why so many people are reluctant to chase their dream.
Because they fear falling short.
The concept and ideology of being perfect is an attitude that hinders progress.
I am not advocating that you should jump into action without knowing the basics of what you get into.
My point is that you should not allow fear and failure to control your outlook.
Whether or not you try their will be a point in time that you will fail.
There will be a point in time that you succeed too.
You have to learn to balance your fear.
Focus on your path .
As long as you can contain your emotions you can focus and think clearly.
Being highly emotional clouds the vision .
I know what I am talking about.I have alllowed my emotions to get the best of me and send me in a spiral.
Instead of meditating and or analyzing the situation I would allow anger to build up then I would explode.
We as humanbeings are emotional people.
So it is normal to fear failure throughout your journey in life.
However you do not have to.
There comes a time when you have to rise up ,overcome the doubt and fear .
Strategically push through to the end .
If you continously live in the shadow of fear you might not ever experience the greater Blessings.
What you should not be afraid of you are afraid of .
Be not afraid of facing your fear and failure head on.
In alll reality you have yourself to contend and live with.
So if you fail to make a genuine effort you are cheating yourself and your dreams .
How can you not allow yourself to experience a greater you ?
You need courage .
You need encouragement.
Knowing that you have some one back ing you is motivation.
Believing in yourself ,motivating yourself is the true strength of success.
When you build confidence fear and doubt folds .
Fear and doubt will always be there but your willingness to make moves will over come it.
Action and self belief is the cure .
That very thing that you fear doing the most is the thing you need to do.
And yes make sure that what you are doing is healthy for your well being.
This is the day that changes will take place in your life.
Circumstances are about to change .
Before you take on the action of change you have to revamp your mind.
What you want to do ?
When do you want to do it ?
Then get busy and do it.
Sitting back relaxing in fear thinking of what could go right and what could go wrong does not =Progress.
Overthinking can spoil a lot of potential
Each human being on planet earth has the potential to do great things .
Yet potential is not good enough unless it is put to work .
With that being-said I want you to know that all things are possible.
Which means you can over come fear and anxiety.
Remember that fear and failure is a stepping stone to bigger and better things .
You have to learn to learn from failures .Learning is winning .
If you learn then by all means you have succeeded.
Michael Jordan failed but look how he turned out.
There are countless other success stories like that one.
So I am encouraging you not to give up on yourself .
Do not be bound by fear.
Be bold and willing to make mistakes and learn from your mistakes.
You are human.
You me or anyonelse are entitled to fail.
So it depends on your outlook and motive.
Are you doing things to appease people.
So what happens when you do not meet their expectations ?
Are you now condemed ?
Do not worry I have seen this all in play already.
Conclusion
No one walking the face of this earth is immune to hardship, drama ,pain ,joy success.
As long as you are living you will experience different things .Some you might not like .
So no matter what you decide to do in life there are results you have to deal with.
Remember in all that you do in life face your fears and do not be subdued.
Do not waver not one inch to sooth and stroke the ego of others.
Stay on your path .keep striving and doing what you are doing to get to where you have got to go.
I want you to be blessed .You are worthy and can do all things in life.
There are no limits as to what you can achieve .
Trust yourself ,trust the process.
You are great ,you are worthy .
Stay focused and trust the process. May you be enriched and blessed in all that you do.
How do you feel about todays post .
Is there anything that I missed that you would like to add.
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