The best form of help is and always will be helping yourself.
When I say helping yourself I mean putting your happiness and your health and your kids first and your priorities.
If you aren’t in a good mental state then how can you possibly be of help to others .
When you are in a good space mentally you can do a lot to help others .
Always take care of you first so that you can perform at the highest level possible.
When you are happy you and your family will thrive .
If you are unhappy your minds going to be else where
If you are a blessing to yourself then you’ll definitely be a blessing to others .
I’ve seen people that are not productive helping others yet their service is in vain because they are not in a good space mentally and more over it’s a disservice to the people who need the love and care .
Always remember you get blessed when you help yourself too .
We have been conditioned to think that we need to help others in order to receive blessings
When you are in a good space mentally your service to others will be that much more dynamic and impactful .
When you are firing on all cylinders you are not just going to be of good help but you’ll also be a good influence .
Even God blesses those who help themselves proverbs
That should say alot in of it’self .
It’s not selfish to help yourself first however it is selfish to offer your help to others knowing that you are in desperate need of help yourself.
How can you be a joyful servant if you are broken mentally spiritually and emotionally .
So basically you’ll be causing more harm than anything else .
Even whilst you are working on yourself opportunities for your personal advancement will pop up .
A blessing is a blessing no matter how you look at it .
Be genuine with yourself and let your heart be pure .
When you have a pure heart and good intentions your love and your presence will be felt .
God loves a cheerful giver” is 2 Corinthians 9:
In other words don’t give out of guilt but Give out of love .
This applies to every aspect of life
Where ever your mind goes the energy
What ever you stay fixated on becomes your reality .
If you focus on positive and uplifting things then that shall manifest it’s self .
Being optimistic doesn’t make you gullible
I am optimistic but rest assured I am aware of what’s going on around me .
The difference between myself and a ignorant negative person is that I choose to focus on solutions so that I can get the clarity I need .
Stay ready
Sometimes opportunity doesn’t present its’self the way you think it should be .
This is why you have to keep learning and opening your mind so that you can recognize and capitlalize off of the opportunities ,especially the ones people squander .
You are in the driver seat
Stay on the path you are on but be ready to pivot if need be .
You are going to receive many more opportunities and blessings.
I am not saying that you have to take every opportunity that comes your way .
You have put yourself in position to have options so therefore you can pick and choose rather than having to accept bread crumbs .
Having a clear mind makes the world of a difference.
When you are in a good state mentally life gets easier .
In addition to that you start to function better .
When you aren’t in a good state of mind you lose patience quicker and you become even more tempermental .
When your mind is clear you can problem solve better .
You gain confidence and you start doing things that you otherwise wouldn’t do .
The opportunities and results you are getting are a direct result of your thoughts and your actions aligning together .
Yes people will ask you how you did it but you can always tell them that it takes work and effort.