Not everyone supporting you is supporting for legitimate reasons .
Don’t let people manipulate you.
Some people are supporting you hoping that you’ll accept their ideologies .
If I’m helping some one it’s to steer them in the right direction not to co erce them .
It’s important to listen and watch people’s actions .
This is is why it’s best to screen people .
Over the years I’ve learned to refuse people’s assistance.
I know how people operate however it’s also important knowing when a person is being a blessing to you .
When a person is genuine you’ll know .
When a person isn’t genuine you’ll know too .
When you are intune with yourself you’ll know whether a person is being genuine or not .
Not everyone has bad intentions , not every one has good intentions.
Do understand that people will switch up on you .
This doesn’t mean that you can’t have a disagreement and still get along with people while being civil about it .
It’s the people that force feed their opinions upon you that have to be removed out of your life .
We know the truth is hard to accept when it doesn’t suit our narrative.
I don’t always like the truth however it’s needed so that I can grow as a person .
With that being said I respect people’s opinions but I don’t respect lies .
I don’t support lying and stealing in any way shape or form .
I do support the truth although I might not always be vocal about it ..
I’ve learned to shut up and let people talk .
If you watch people’s actions they’ll reveal everything that you need to know .
There’s no need to catch an attitude but more so to observe so that you can deal with people accordingly .
It took me a while to understand this very thing .
It’s not always wise to fight fire with fire .
Don’t allow yourself to be used . Some people only call you when it’s convenient for them which is cool just as long as you get what you w
If you feel that my requirements aren’t realistic I’ll move on and you’ll have to get someone else .
I don’t have time to compromise and lower my standards which also means to set boundaries .
The people getting upset with you setting boundaries never had respect for you .
They just saw you as a tool not a human .
In time people will reveal their identity .
You don’t have to learn the hard way to figure people out especially if you monitor their behavior .
Yes be mindful of them putting on a mask but even then it’s easy to expose their true intentions .
Watch how they interact and who they Interact with .
Who do they associate with .
Do they associate with people that are less fortunate and or vulnerable ?
Do they target people that have less than them ?
Do they get mad and upset when you share different outlooks.
It takes two
You have to set boundaries to protect and decrease the risk of you being taken advantage of .
People will smile and do good by you but don’t think that they won’t try taking advantage of you .