Can a good person be a bad investment ?
Your answer to the question is yes but maybe not for the reason you think.
I am the type of person that has to get value for my time .
I am not going to pamper or wrestle with any one to do anything however if you have the desire to do it I will know .
If you don’t have the desire to do it you Won’t do it .
My time is precious so therefore I maximize it .
You learn a lot about people as time goes by .
Some people are not suited for business but that doesn’t mean that you should abandon them but do deal with them according to the level they are on .
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I learned how to separate business from pleasure ages ago but here recently I fine tuned my approach to help me be more approachable and sociable.
In other words instead of dismissing people that aren’t business orientated my association with them would be casual.
It is all about learning how to deal with people on multiple levels .
If some one is talking stupidness or doing idiotic things cut them loose .
When it comes to business it is more personal and you have to have a certain level of professionalism to meet my standards .
If you don’t meet my standards I wouldn’t deal with you on a business level .
Not every one that I come in contact with is a good investment but that doesn’t mean that they are a bad people .
I don’t look down on people but I know how to deal with them .
I like to look at peoples track records before I make decisions to invest my time energy and money into them .
If I know some one is always behind on their bills or chooses not to pay their bills they wouldn’t be getting a dime from me .
I am very skeptical of who I do business with .
People make the mistake of mixing business with pleasure .
Friends and family doesn’t play out and you usually end up with the bad end of the stick .
Business is not about friendships it is about service and solutions .
People are out here bribing ,securing deposits and running away with people’s money .
You cannot be reckless in the selection process you have to vet people carefully .
People’s attitudes will give you the answers you need .
Even something as simple as taking care of your hygiene is a telling sign .
A persons presentation says a lot about them too .
If you can’t show me that you have invested in yourself I definitely wouldn’t back you .
A lot of times people want you to pull all of the weight while they do nothing at all and I cannot deal with people like that .
As adults there are certain levels of responsibility and standards you should hold.
Every aspect of your life is important so don’t place an emphasis on the dollar place an emphasis on time ,solutions i.e value .
Some people aren’t worth your time but you won’t be able to weed them out if you don’t value time .
Your biggest mistake is having high expectations of other people .
Set standards but don’t expect other people to think like you .
Be optimistic but do know that people make errors in their judgement .
Some people do things maliciously yes however you have to discern and determine if the person is making a mistake or doing it out of spite .
Yes there are people that will go to great lengths to deceive you and undermine you but as long as you are aware of the people you are dealing with you should be alright .
This doesn’t mean you wouldn’t get fooled or make the wrong call .
Mistakes will be made so you have to be some what flexible .
Still to this day I have to work on my tolerance because certain things irritate me .
After all of my experiences I have been successfully able to change my mindset and my company.
Everything I endured has taught me some valuable lesson although some were harsh but it all made me wiser .
That is one of the reasons why I could easily determine whether some one is a con artist or not .
I have dealt with many tricky people in my time so I know the ins and outs.
I didn’t say that I know everything so lets nip that in the butt .
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Conclusion
You should know what you are looking for before you decide to invest your time money and energy into into people.