As long as you live you will face difficulty anf Difficult people how you deal with controversial people is what matters the most.
Luckily There are different ways of dealing with confrontational people .
You must not always try to fight fire with fire because Sometimes shutting up and letting the other person think they won the argument is the best thing to do .
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The empty barrell makes the most noise .
Just because a person is loud doesn’t mean they are productive .
You have to be creative when approaching difficult people .
For example you are facing a hostilelerson so therfore it is your job to ease the tension .
Some people like confrontation as but as long as you don’t feed into their trap you keep your power .
One thing I have learned in life is to adjust .
Some things can be avoided and then Somethings are beyond our control .
It is much easier to avoid trouble than it is to avoide troublesome people.
As long as you realize you have the power and authority over your actions it doesn’t make a difference who you bump into .
There will always be disgruntled people around you .
You should not let their behaviour influence you or intimidate you .
I live in a 22 sq mile Island so it’s kind of hard to avoid people .
The best part about my journey is that my energy and vibration is on a higher level .
The negative people chart a completely different path from me , So I am mostly by passing them because my lifestyle is different.
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Always remember to keep your peace .
As an i dividual I like to be optimistic and calm.
You don’t need to give off the wrong vibe at all ,leave people and allow them to guess .
Do not make it obvious that you are trying to avoid certain people. Go along with your daily routine switch it up a bit and enjoy every moment .
I know what it’s like living and working difficult people .
Somethings are better faced head on .because you can’t avoid every person .
You have to realize that people are going to be people.
You must also face the fact that you cannot control peoples behaviour.
Your responsibilith is you and Just because the other person is bei g confrontational doesn’t mean you should be confrontational too.
Some one has to be the bigger person and that person should be you .
When egos clash that is what causes friction amongst people .
I learned this the hard way plenty of times .
People are going to do what they want regardless of the consequences .
Example : A person is unruly towards me I have options
1 Return the favor
2 Respond respectfully
3 Remove myself
Lets say I decide to go with option number 1 I can assure you it will be turmoil which doesn’t work in my favor .
I would go with options 2 or 3 because I know understand how to control my ego .
If you are a reckless out of control person you are more vulnerable and more likely to buckle under pressure.
Learn how to restrain yourself because once you do you become self lord and master of yourself .
I don’t tolerate nonsense but when I am in the same vicinity as a volatile person I stand my ground mind my business but not in an aggressive way .
Conclusion
Some peoples ego would not allow them to walk away from condrontation but that is how you get yourself in trouble . Some people feel they have to go toe .
Some people feel they have to go toe to not because of their egp either but based on principle but even then what is the principle based upon .
Do not be driven by your ego ,be confident assertive and more importantly listen to your intuition.