Fear is false evidence appearing real .
Don’t allow fear to paralyze you .
Rejection deters people from trying but that’s only because they allow it to .
On the opposite end of the spectrum we have people that thinks everything is supposed to go their way .
Be optimistic but also accept the fact that you will make mistakes sometimes .
Your entitled to make mistakes so it’s not the end of the world when you do .
We all have challenges we are facing but it’s how you deal with the challenges that matters .
Fortunately we have choices and decisions to make regardless of what we are faced with.
When challenges arise you can either allow the challenge to consume you or take control of the situation .
As long as we have air in our loungues we will face difficulty .
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Failure provokes fear
The greatest people in the world failed over and over .
People are ashamed of failure so much so they become reluctant to try .new and different things .
I don’t look at failure the same way the average person does . I look at failure as a stepping stone .
On the other hand Society has convinced people to think they shouldn’t fail hence why we have people acting like they know it all .
We cannot control the unknown
Don’t attempt to try and control the future because you can’t .
What you can do is prepare for tomorrow by doing the best that you can today .
It’s good to plan and write down your goals but you never know what you will run into on any given day.
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Every one has flaws
Every one has flaws and things to work on in life . Don’t start thinking that your flaws are liabilities for they are unique attributes of your life .
I understand that you are trying to hide your insecurities out of fear however you have to learn to conquer and live with the fact that you have flaws as do all of us humans.
What triggers fear ?
Different things trigger fear and anxiety in people but the very thing you fear the most is what you need to face .
People get intimidated by what they feel that they can’t over come and or complete .
Life is a learning experience so don’t be ashamed of not knowing or being able to do something .
Seek clarity
Things that confuse you can serve as a deterrent hence why you need to ask questions and or do some research to get clarity .
When you get clarity you get confirmation which gives you the understanding needed to complete the task ahead of you .
The way to get over fear
Go ahead and make the mistake so that you can learn.
I didn’t say be reckless but do make a calculated effort .
Some of you are reluctant to try which creates more doubt and insecurities however you need to take action to get a result .
If you don’t take action it’s impossible to produce , measure and learn .
It’s normal to be fearful
I wouldn’t sit here and tell you not to be fearful but do not allow fear to consume you
Just because you are feeling intimidated doesn’t mean you can’t over come and conquer .
When you finally do do it your confidence will rise instantly .
Don’t be a prisoner of people’s opinions
People that talk about you don’t care about your well being ,furthermore you have no control of people’s thoughts and feelings untowrds you .
Stop trying to control the outcome
There’s nothing you me or any one else can do about the unknown besides dealing with it when the time comes .
.Nothing is guaranteed besides death other than death being guaranteed there is no assurance that you’ll fail or succeed.
If you don’t make an effort you will never figure things out so take the first step .
Action is the cure for doubt and insecurities .
What about theory ?
Theory is research oriented and practical is hands on . No matter how much information you consume you will make mistakes when you get in the field .
Conclusion
Nothing will boost your confidence like trying . If you sit idle you’ll never get it done .Trust yourself to enough to know that you’ll get it done and make mistakes in the process of doing it .