Trust everyone to be who they are but trust in the fact that you see them well DMX
I am very skeptical of who I have around me because bad company corrupts good character.
I have come too far to allow my reputation to be ruined .
I don’t have time for ingorance neither am I willing to or going to compromise .
I stand to protect my sanity and I am not spending time trying to convincing people to do better.
People are going to do what they want which means a person might not ever change and if they do it’ll be on their time .
A person with a mind made up to continue on with their bad behavior is a person that doesn’t want help .
There’s nothing you can do to influence change upon some one that doesn’t want to change .
Do know that “what you do in the dark comes out in the light .”
There is a saying that goes like this “What doesn’t come out in the wash comes out in the rinse .”
You can’t mask your true intentions for ever furthermore everyone isn’t going to allow you to pull the wool over their eyes .
Me personally I don’t like liars and thieves .
All it takes is for 1 lie to put yourself in a hole .
So when you lie you are going to either
- confess
- continue on lying .
All of the effort that you are putting into lying can be used to tell the truth .
There’s no reason to lie but people do it .
Let’s be clear here , I am not advising you to tell the world your personal business .
With that being said you have to stop lying to yourself first .
Secondly you must be forthcoming .
Insecurities and a will to maintain and mask a false image is detrimental .
The truth will always remain no matter how much you lie .
Eventually the lies will catch up with you hence why it’s better to speak the truth .
Living in Denial only serves to keep your personal illusions going .
In your mind you think you are getting away so you keep on doing it .
Lying and stealing isn’t healthy yet you still do it .
In order for you to fix your problems you must first identify your trigger points .
All of us have triggers but when you recognize those triggers you can subdue and contain them .
I know for a fact that some of you know what triggers you but won’t do anything to address the problem .
- Be honest with yourself
The best person to be honest with is your self because If you are honest with yourself you will be honest with everyone else .
It’s not that people can’t be honest with themselves in some cases but more so a lack participation on their behalf to make the changes needed .
- How much longer do you think ?
How much longer do you think you can get away with your nonsense ?
Do you not know that you’ll be exposed at some point?
When you lie and steal you have to look over your shoulder in addition to that you can’t sleep at night .
- Look in the mirror
We all have issues to deal with however being in denial is the only stumbling block in your way .
The longer you deny that a problem exist the longer it’s going to take for you to heal and move forward .
If you want a better life you have to apply yourself .
- Accountability
If you don’t take accountability you aren’t going to grow .
I am not saying that you need people however the people that are helping you are watching you not help yourself .
If you aren’t willing to help yourself then you don’t deserve help .
Conclusion
Life is about choices and the decisions you make today will shape your tomorrow .