. If you are more than an option you should treat yourself in such a manner .
First and fore most you shouldn’t allow yourself to be used in any way shape or form .
When I say used I mean to be taken advantage of by people .
If you are dealing with people treating you like an option cut ties with them .
Don’t allow yourself to be treated like that.
You have to make yourself a priority .
1 of the best ways of making yourself a priority is by having self respect and setting boundaries .
A person who sets boundaries is a person with self respect .
A person with standards isn’t going to allow themselves to be treated like a second class citizen .
When you know who you are and what you stand for people will treat you differently .
A person that doesn’t have standards allows themselves to be treated any old way .
It’s easy to manipulate a person that doesn’t have self respect.
When people can sense and see that you don’t have any boundaries they will exploit you
It’s not up to the next person to make you a priority, it is up to you to make yourself a priority .
If I am dealing with some one and they aren’t reciprocating I’ll simply cut them off .
. Life is too short to be messing around with time energy and resources .
Don’t turn a blind eye to it
Many of you don’t want to accept things for what they are .
In other words you have people in your lives disrespecting you that you keep giving a pass ..
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For some reason you have convinced yourself that they disrespected you because they was having a bad moment .
No ,they disrespected you intentionally .
Face the facts .
- Don’t tolerate disrespect
If you allow the abuse to go on eventually it will eat you up inside
. Spiritually and mentally it’s not healthy to tolerate abuse
. What you are ultimately doing is depressing and belittling yourself
. You deserve better and you should treat yourself as such .
- Know your worth
Know your worth and don’t settle for less .
I’d rather go without than to do something for less
Time is something you cannot buy and my value will never be compromised .
Remain stead fast and don’t you buckle under pressure .
People aren’t afraid to take advantage of people .
Keep in mind that the takers don’t have limits .
- Know where to draw the line
Set boundaries
When you set boundaries people will either get upset ,respect you or leave you alone all together .
The people that get upset or leave you alone for setting boundaries were never genuine .
- Have self respect
Take care of your mind body and soul .
Dont ever neglect your health and happiness .
You don’t need the weight of negatvity weighing you down .
A person with self respect doesn’t tolerate nonsense .
Conclusión
Be led by principles
Listen to your intuition and stand firm .
Walk with dignity and pride .
A man and a woman with dignity is regarded and respected in their commiunities .
Even people that dis like me respect me . When you respect yourself people will approach you differently ..