When you start out growing people, you will encounter hardships and criticism ., tt comes with the territory .
People will watch you build a dream and then offer you assistance after you’ve established yourself .
No one wants .to share the work load however they want to share the spotlight .
Friends and family members will watch you struggle but will happily support strangers .
With that being said, your friends and family aren’t obligated to help either however some of them will be the 1 st ones to resent your success .
When you make your dreams a priority, people will naturally look at you differently .
Most people have been programmed to act and think a certain way, so when they see 1 of their peers doing the opposite, it’s foreign to them .
Instead of trying to be cool and fit in you are focused on your journey.
Yes People are watching you, and they see the progress you are making too .
Your growth has provoked insecurities with in them .
Had they not known you, there wouldn’t be an issue.but instead of learning from you, they’d rather try and discredit you.
When people start attacking you for doing positive things, that’s a sign that you are on the right path .
I love the criticism, although I don’t care how people think or feel about me .
I know who I am, and I know what I stand for so therefore I don’t need validation .
The people attacking my character need to be validated to feel appreciated .
When you learn not to give care about people’s opinions that’s when you’ll start apprecting their hate .
Use their hate as fuel and motivation .
When they start doubting you and demonizing you that’s when you are on the right path .
If you wasn’t succeeding, they wouldn’t be talking about you .
They are allowing you to live in their heads rent free .
Some folks will embrace you.
Notvevery one os afraid of your growth and will support you along the way .
It’s people whom you know and grew up with who turn bitter when they see you flourishing .
You don’t control people
How ever people think ,act, and feel is really a reflection of themselves .
It’s not your job to explain yourself to anyone about anything concerning your personal growth and development .
Your growth is stunning people .
They weren’t expecting you to accomplish what you’ve accomplished because they’ve always doubted you and been against you .
Them, seeing you doing what you are doing blows their minds .
You are going to shock and surprise alot more people .
Every successful person has a target on their back
Not every 1 in the spot light is being targeted for the wrong reason. However, the vast majority are .
A dishonest ,chaotic ,destructful person deserves to be ridiculed .
If you are dis honest and think you are successful because you are being subjected to harsh criticism, you are reaping what you have sown .
You will be criticized and praised whether you do good or bad .
Why not be criticized for doing good .