Not ever thought is revealed externally.
Thoughts come to mind but not every thought is born into action .
You can have the worst thoughts come to mind and still conquer it .
We have been indoctrinated to think act and feel a certain way .
You are a unique individual as is every other being .
Furthermore you have the power to change your current situation and all other situations you are dealing with .
A Decision is an action .
People think the way they think and that’s how it will always be .
People believe what they want to believe and that’s how it will always be.
With that being said people will always have an opinion and that’s how it will always be.
Some people think that I am weird and some think that I’m great however I am responsible for my thoughts feelings and actions .
A person with morals wouldn’t allow them selves to be disrespected .
You have to set boundaries with people so that they know not to cross certain lines .
The way you carry your self says alot about you .
Even then people will still try to test you but that’s when you re-inforce .
When people know you don’t tolerate disrespect they’ll either respect you or distance themselves from you .
I am not advocating violence but you have to guard and protect your spirit at the same time .
For me it’s a little bit easier dealing with critics because of my history .
The people talking about you don’t have a genuine concern about you or your health .
You have to keep ticking along otherwise you’ll be a victim of your circumstances.
People tend to leave people alone that they know don’t give a shit about their opinions and I am one of those people .
Yes people approach me however the people that approach me wrongly end up regretting it .
I respect myself which means I wouldn’t allow any one to demean me or deceive me .
I didn’t say be volatile and jeopardize your freedom unless of course the person becomes a threat .
On the other hand people do things that are unethical, illegal that deserve to be prosecuted .
As long as you are walking upright you shouldn’t have anything to worry about .
It’s when you aren’t being true to yourself a person can say something that triggers your emotions .
Even at that point you are in control of your re actions .
I don’t have it all together however I’m doing my best to make sure that I correct my mistakes .
It’s time to realize how powerful you are .
Tap into the inner you .
Tapping into your inner you means loving yourself and having confidence in your abilities and trusting your instincts. .
When my instincts tell me something I listen .
I know what it takes to overcome difficulty and march on forward . You should respect peoples personal boundaries however you don’t have to agree with everything and respect everything they do or say .
I know what I said sounds crazy so I’ll explain in more detail .
Let’s say your having a conversation and the person says something divisive and you respectfully disagree .
Now let’s say you are having a conversation with a person and they start cursing you out and you proceed to correct and rebuke them .
At that point they have crossed the line so therefore you can no longer tolerate the disrespect .
As a person with morals and Integrity you must not allow people and their opinions to define you
. Don’t walk through life feeling guilty and shamed for being you .
People will prosecute you just for being you . I’ve had people demonize me for not being a follower .
I know who I am so therefore I don’t follow .
Only insecure people view you as a threat .
People that are confident in themselves don’t have time to be trying to convince people , they’ll let the results do the talking .
The people talking about you aren’t confident with what they see in themselves and despise you for doing so .
People are going to talk regardless .
What everyone else thinks is what everyone else thinks .
You can’t control their thoughts however you have control of yourself and the direction you choose to go in the future .
Furthermore opinions have been around long before we were born .
Your out look matters
Your perception of life is all that matters .
I’m not saying you shouldn’t learn from others , i’m saying people’s opinions and perceptions of you don’t define you .
Don’t allow them to pull you out of character
Yes people will test you to get a reaction out of you.
In other words they’ll push your buttons hoping you’ll respond volguarly .
When you don’t respond the way they was hoping you would respond you take away their power .
Watch out for their manipulation tactics
People use all sorts of tactics to baite you in .
I’ve seen people support my business hoping that I’d conform to their ideologies and beliefs .
When they realized I wasn’t budging they withdrew their support and exposed themselves in the process of doing so .
Let them go
You don’t need any one in your life that’s not going to collaborate with you .
Some people are layed back and don’t have the drive to do anything progressive.
People like that you don’t need around you .
Some people have to be dismissed for the simple fact they aren’t an asset
. It’s not difficult to tell someone that you don’t want them in around you .
I made up my mind many years ago that I’d make the changes needed to better myself .
I decided to keep challenging myself even if it meant being in an uncomfortable position .
Yes I am optimistic but rest assured I am prepared for the storms ahead of me .
Some might say I’m being pessimistic but in reality life is unpredictable.
Not ever day is a sunny day and not every day is a rainy day and that’s how I look at life .
Being real with yourself self brings forth balance and proper perspective in your realm of reality .
What do I mean ?
We might experience similar things and have different out looks albeit traveling in the same direction .
We are the same in the sense of us being human but unique as individuals .
Our taste buds likes and dislikes and feelings aren’t the same .
Conclusion
You have full authority and control of your thoughts and actions . Don’t be a slave to negative thoughts .
To ever action there’s a reaction .