Failure is a blessing.
Failure is a stepping stone however to myself alone so therefore I am going break it down in a simplistic way .
First and foremost please understand that failure in not a germ or an enemy .
People are afraid to try things because they think failing is the worst thing in the world.
For the mere fact you are living you have had to fail otherwise you wouldn’t be alive .
As much as you try to avoid failure you are more likely fail.
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Failure can be a lesson and a stepping stone and a Blessing depending on your outlook .
Failure is a great teacher if you choose to learn from it .
Some of my biggest failures helped shape and mold me into the strong willed person that I am today .
Failure is what made Michael Jordan into the man that he is today .
Imagine if Michael Jordan wasn’t told that he was not a good enough basketball player . wou be as good as he is today ?
He could have given up but that’s not in his DNA. Jordan used rejection as fuel to do better.
Kobe Bryant was the same way .
What J am saying is If you are willing to work through it you will be wiser and stronger.
I know Failure is humiliating but you can’t let it deter you .
Whenever you see People running around acting as if they have it all figured out they are lying .
Any body that is open ,honest isn’t afraid to admit their failures.
Keep your personal life private but do not try to front .
Don’t worry about what people are going to say.
People are going to talk about you whether you do good or bad .
You don’t want to be the person regretting not taking a action when you are old .
Some people say “fake it until you make it ” but faking it will never make you successful.
Failure is not intimidating when you realize and accept that it is apart of human nature .
I do think it would help if people started looking at failure as a lesson and not just in terms of winning and losing.
Learning is one of the driving forces of success .
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You are are entitled to make mistakes.
Yes Some mistakes are more costly than others . Be vigilant and strategic but don’t walk like you are on egg shells .
We are going to fall short no matter what .
If you worried about public scrutiny figure out what’s more important in your life.
- Your goals Public opinion
Failures are like building blocks and yes I know people do not like to be seen as a failure.
Some of the greatest success stories come from failure.
People like Floyd Mayweather and James Stewart come from extreme poverty .
Those 2 brothers are not ashamed to share their story.
We all come from somewhere, no one starts at the top.
There are situations when people are given positions of authority and responsibility without merit but it’s short lived .
You shouldn’t be judging yourself based on other people’s accomplishment.
You should be judging yourself based on your out put.
Getting humiliated is never .
There is no way to avoid humiliation.
When life throws punches ,you can’t let it Affect your mental.
Take yourself out of your comfort zone so that you can reach the next level.
Don’t let fear consume you.
In action breeds doubt, action cures doubt .
Once you get moving you would realize how important taking action is .
Allowing fear to control you is like crippling yourself .I know what I am talking about because I overthink the process when people are teaching me sometimes.
Try not to think about making a mistake and focus on the technique .
I have seen the best of the best make mistakes.
You must get yourself to a place where you are confident .
Even if it’s your first time doing something your confidence and attention to detail is goi to be pivotal .
No one can force you to be confident, no one can force you to overcome failure .
The only thing that I can do is encourage and guide you on your journey .
We all need a little encouragement .
Compliments motivate people to want to do more.
Mind you some people let accolades and praise get to their heads .
Never let your achievements get in the way of progress and growth.
The reason why I am saying this is because failure is inevitable .
For every great fall there is a .
You don’t want to get to the point where you achieve so much that you think you are invincible.
As soon as you start thinking you are invincible difficulty will rise up and slap you in the face .
I failed A lot and will continue doing so .
Being humiliated never deterred me, it made me wiser, more confident and willing to succeed
Some of you might have thought I was crazy when I initially said it failure is a Blessing until I broke it down to you.
Now you will be willing to tackle your issues instead of backing down from them .
Conclusion
Not all battles are worth fighting .Sometimes you have to pivot and adjust .
Pivoting and adjusting is not weakness it’s a strength.
Let your intuition guide you .
Do you have any advice or inspiration to share?
What is your view point on failure ?