What I see is the big secret about success .
Every person walking the face of the Earth has a divine gift .But far too often people give up before they experience their blessing .
Yes there are groups of people and individuals that like to play the blame game .
The harsh Reality is that no one in the world is going to sympathize with you .Mind you there are people that are willing to pretend .
In reality Success does not discriminate or choose who gets blessed .
” I see people crushing it on a daily basis and it seems like I am stuck.”
You are not alone .I once thought like you .I used to think that success was elusive despite being a successful person .
No one is guaranteed success ,it is earned.
Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking otherwise .
People that play victim walking around victimizing others would have you thinking that way .
I am here to show you different .
Successful people put in the work to reach a pinnacle . It is not like when people are born you are hand picked to succeed .
Yes I do know that some of us have to face more red tape than others but that is not an excuse ,that is life .
The richest person in the World Jeff Bezzos did not inherit wealth he worked his ass off and built it.
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The unsuccessful people play the sidelines .These are the kinds of people that want to share the spotlight and share the spoils with you after the hard work is done.
If you are of the victim mindset or you are a focused person I can assure you that you are going to feel refreshed after reading this article .
Just know that you have the potential and ability to be anything you want to be in life .
The money ,fame, cars are not the end all be all of success .People have had to and continue to work late ,rise up early and hustle while others are out shopping p,etc…
Prioritize your dreams .
Being successful has many definitions Success is measured based on what you produce so stop comparing yourself to others as it will not benefit you .
Being unique is the greatest strength that you can possess .
Furthermore making comparisons is not progressive .
Your struggle and pain isn’t compatible to the next person and vice versa. We feel our own pain .
So with that being said, you and I don’t know what the next man or woman went through to achieve their rewards.
I am guilty of comparing myself to others too .
Iam going to give you some tips later on in this post to help you curve the issue .
Once you start believing in yourself, things change for the better .
Insecurities are not apart of the normal human make up but we act that way so therefore we have to rectify it.
So therefore you have to figure out the cause and effect .
Like knowing what is stopping you from pursuing your dream then coming up with a game plan to execute .
I know that peer pressure can be a bitch .But at some point in time you have to make up your mind and decide what you want to do .
You need to be the one influencing people to be productive in their lives.
Don’t go looking for followers .
The only person you are leading is yourself .Those that take interest might be inspired to do better for themselves .
Successful people lead by example .
Insecure people seek followers .
I know this to be a fact because I have seen people do certain things to get approval and stoop low for positions .
I am here to encourage you to be strong and wise and independent .
By the time you are done reading my tips you will be much more prepared and motivated to tackle all that life has to offer .
Let’s dive into the long awaited tips that I promised .
Trust yourself
If you do not have faith in your own ability then how do you expect anyone else to believe in you .Start changing from within so that you might lead and live a life of abundance .
Take evasive action
Do not sit on the sidelines dreaming about the possibilities. A dream without action is a mere deception .Actions get you results .Now wisdom says that you should have a basic understanding of what you are doing before you make moves.The reason why you need to have a basic understanding of what you are doing is because you need a rough guide and direction .
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Challenge yourself
Challenge yourself .Even if it means testing new concepts and adding new skill sets to your cabinet when you are excelling .Successful people challenge their thinking and hold themselves accountable .
You are worthy
You are special and unique . And As a fellow human -being I will not sit idle .My duty is to inspire change within you .Today I am urging you to dig deep and look from within. Don’t let anyone tell you are not worthy .Look in the mirror smile and repeat what I have said to you.
Don’t take shit for granted
Don’t get complacent thinking that you cannot be replaced.As far as your life is concerned and your personality and your spirit you are irreplaceable .As far as success is concerned , you are replaceable.
Yesterday’s accomplishments don’t mean shit if you are not doing anything to enhance yourself today .
Some people get arrogant and lose focus
2 People in particular who I admire a alot Rapper Cassidy and Floyd Mayweather are considered to be arrogant by many people .
The thing with these 2 individuals is that they have a high level of confidence and self belief.Furthermore they are both undefeated and neither of them are concerned with the opinions of hypocrites.
You have to have a high level of self belief if you want to make progress in life .
For example ; I prioritize my time so that I can do what makes me happy .If I am not happy doing something I will stop doing it emmediately
I learned to stop appeasing people years ago . I was always a loner but when I started chasing the crowd trying to fit in that is when I got myself into shit .
So live life on your terms .Do for you without regret and or shame.If people want to get mad at you for being you to hell with them.
People that don’t respect you or respect themselves will be the ones that criticize you negatively .
Those are the people that you do not need or want around you .
Those are the kind of people that I like to refer to as avengers or even vampires .
I navigate on a daily basis .So the things that I am sharing with you in this post is nothing new to me .
As a matter of fact there is nothing new under the sun to me .
People have tried all soughts of gimmicks to try and break my stride but they couldn’t .
I know what I want to do .I have a purpose and a mission to full- fill in life.
This brings us to my next point
Know your mission
You have to be focused on your mission and block everything else out.You need to be focusing on what is ahead of you .When you know your mission and you are doing things that align with it you become a powerful force .
Do not force
You do not have to convince anyone .Let the results do the talking .People cannot stop what nature has planned. If you find yourself begging it is time to step back so that you can re-evaluate the process.
Listen
Listening is a powerful tool.And I know what it is like having to have the last say or having to intervene.Sometimes it is better to observe .Loud mouths are not the most productive. I don’t mean that you should listen to nonsense either.
Be mindful
You should be mindful not carefule because you are not walking on eggshells .People will try to provoke you to try stoop to their level.
I experience this on a daily basis in different places .But once people see that they cannot bring you down to their level they will respect you.
Do not explain shit
Whatever it is that is private and confidential is just that .You do not have to share personal info .If you are working on a project keep it to yourself.
People are crafty these days and would try to deceive you in aheart beat.
Do not be stubborn
Be sure of what you are doing but do not ignore the warning signs.It is like driving a car or riding a bike on reserve .Sooner or later you will run out of gas .Life is no different .
Digdeep
Look from withinwith in for motivation .Some days are more productive and some days you might be feeling sluggish but you have to keep pushing on .
There is always going to be something in the back of your mind trying to trick you into doing something counterproductive .
Your job is to over come that .
Think big
Think big and do big things .Yes to build a house you have to lay it brick by brick .Small steps can lead to big results .Never ever doubt yourself.You have the ability to achieve all things .
Be strategic
in life strategy plays a big role .You should get to a get tons point where you know and understand why you are doing what you are doing .Hard work is important but if you mix it in with a good strategy you will be unstoppable .
Small minds will not understand you
Thin minded people will not aid and abetabeit you living your dreams. No one is obligated to support your dreams But be aware of who you share with . Therewith .There are people that will try working against you if they know what you are up to .
People are jealous and envious.Surround yourself around people who have done what you are aspiring to do .
Don not let people use you
If you allow it ,people will use you like a tool and feel no way about it .Stand FirmStandbfirm ,let your no be no ,let your yes be yes. You have to do these things to protect your sanity.
The world is a beautiful place but it is full of users and abusers too. So you have to know when to put your foot down or else people will run over you .
The minute people sense kindness they will try to exploit you .Protect your spirit and dignity .
Donot turn the other cheek
Do not hold on to resent but remember the lesson .You cannot afford to give your enemy a second chance .Let your enemies be enemies .Turning the other cheek leaves you vulnerable .
Stand out
Your biggest strength is in being you .Let them throw stones and think that they have the upper hand on you .Your job is to live aliveva life of abundance not compete and compare yourself to others .
Love live and laugh as much as you can and as long as you can.
Take pride in yourself and think highly of yourself.elf .What eryonelseeveryonelse has to say or what everyone else feels is not important .
Make the most out of all your opportunities and do not turn back .Enjoy the journey you are on .This is your life ,this is your path.Be the best that you can be .There is no use in comparing yourself to others Youothers .You are blessed.
Look in the mirror and say to yourself that “I am somebody.” Start thinking outside of the box Thebox .The world is at your fingertipsfinger tips . Move forward make progress keep learning .
Whilst we can’t predict the future we can do our best to prepare for it and no time is better for it then now .
Thank you for listening .
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