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In todays episode I am going to share some tips to help you cope with failure .

Don’t you worry because I am here to guide you and inspire you.

I know as humans we deal with failures differently . I am not going to dismiss your fears either .

You know how some people say ” don’t fear failure.”

That is a good way of thinking but not everyone copes the same which means I have to deal with the issue of failure based on how you feel.

In this scenario you are afraid which is normal however You have to learn to balance fear and success.

Try not to look at failure in terms of winning and losing instead use it as a tool .

The fear of peoples opinions is holding alot of you back , stop limiting yourself to peoples opinions .

Life is precious and short . Your time will be better spent doing things you love .

Without love and passion you will be more reluctant to try .

Loving something and cherishing it  drives you  to do more .

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What ever it is that’s causing you to second guess yourself ask yourself is it worth more than the goals that you  want to achieve?

You might be in poverty living from pay check.

Let me explain why I like talking about failure .

1 People have problems dealing with it

2 People want to learn how to overcome it

3 We are humans and we are not fallible  .

Yes you have to know when to cut your losses but dont give in because of difficulty.

During times of difficulty is when you should push on and persevere.

Why am I so optimistic ?

• Hardship

• Uncertainty
• My Son

• Failure

• Rejection

Despite Everything that was thrown at me I did not allow it to deter me .

I have faith and self belief beyond my wildest  imaginations .

Listen and learn from people  but don’t let their  opinions stop you from reaching your goals.

Failure is an obstacle that can be defeated.

Every thing boils down to your perception.

Focus on what you want to achieve and respect the fact that failure is an aspect of life that is unavoidable.

Even if you do try to avoid failure you will  fail  .

I can’t tell you how to think or live your life , the only thing I can do is give you advice.

It is up to you to take my advice and use it to your advantage.

Failure has been around long before you and I came on earth.

Facing your fears is the same as facing your failures.

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Remember failures are winners too .

Think about your favorite athlete,entertainer or business icon .

Everyone of them went through hardship

I understand how you feel because I have been in your position before .

For anything to change you have to change yourself, you have to condition your mind .

It’s hard being  humiliated but don’t be the person that backs down.

Let your failures be your stepping stones .

Confidence and self belief means everything .



Learning from mistakes is going to help you as well .

To me failing is not a about winning and losing it’s about learning.

Remember when you are  down and out peoples opinions   will not change your circumstances but you will .


Failure and success is not guaranteed but we make mistakes so in a sense its inevitable.

Don’t let people or hardship deter  you .

Many times people are insecure so as a result of their insecurities they try to cast their doubts on others .


With that being said Be mindful of who you share your dreams with .

“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will”

Self  doubt is holding alot of us back .

Some of you have been conditioned to think you are less of a person in some cases by

• Teachers
• Parents
• Coaches

Entertainers, Athletes, friends ,family all  have  an influence over our lives .

Be mi ful of who you surround yourself with .

The people you associate with Are they promoting  negativity?

You can’t afford to associate with broken people.

Broken people have no hope and get jealous real fast.

I have seen friends turn to enemies because of jealousy.

People that are defeated aren’t going to give you the advice you need to succeed.

Don’t you dare tell them about your dream because they aren’t going to support you .

That is a reality however that doesn’t define you me or anyone else.


Your perception is more important than anything else so   Just because you fail doesn’t mean you are a failure .


Failure is a greater teacher .

I can’t walk in your shoes or feel your pain but I can relate to you .

Learn how to use it to your advantage. Confidence is key in combatting failure .

You have to be resilient to the point where people think you are crazy .

“The biggest failure is not winning and losing but in failing to learn “

Now Let’s go over a few tips .

1 Stepping stones

Not everyone views failure the same however your outlook makes the world of difference. When you fail you fail  so the best thing you can do is correct your mistake and try not to repeat it .

2 Embrace failure

I am not telling you to go out and set yourself up to fail , I am simply saying accept the fact that failure is inevitable.

Fall in love with it .

When you accept it and embrace it you are more likely to try new and different things.

People that allow their fear of failure to consume them very seldom  grow .

3 Self confidence

Self belief means that you trust yourself and love yourself. Self confident people are resilient .

Confident people are always seeking ways to improve and overcome.

Confidence is knowing and doing so try to look at set backs as an opportunity to progress  .

4  Expect failure

Don’t expect everything to work out in your favor . Learn to strike a delicate balance between optimism and reality

We  Humans aren’t in infallible .

5 Learn to face rejection

When you learn to face humility you  become powerful.

Some of you think that you are entitled to yes answers all the time .

The reality of life is that people will tell you no  but  No means next opportunity in my books.

No doesn’t mean that you will not get the opportunity .

Always Remember for every no there is a yes .

When a person is told no over and over and still pushes on they are bound to hear a yes .

Persons with that type of attitude to push through adversity is a person destined for success.

6 Failure is preparing you

Failing is preparation for the solutions that you really need .If you think about it getting it wrong gives you the answer.