The people whom are captivated by fear always focus on the problem
. Lets say you are driving down the road and your car breaks down and you have 2 options
A You call a tow truck and book your car in a garage and get a loaner vehicle
B You stand on the side of the road stressed out thinking of how you are going to get around
Listen ,we all face difficulties however it’s how we deal with the challenges that matter the most .
Somethings are beyond our control however we control the decisions we make .
When Something happens there is nothing we can do to reverse the outcome however we can learn from the ordeal .
Staying fixated on the problem isn’t going to benefit us in the least
. Here you are stressing yourself out over something you had no control over .
It is a waste of time and energy stressing over people and things .
Yes the situation is unfortunate but dwelling on it won’t help .
We are human which meams we are boind to male mistakes .
Solving your problems will cure your problems to .
Sometimes you need to take a deep breath to catch yourself .
The sooner you come to terms with the fact that you have a problem that needs to be fixed the better off you will be .
Most people allow their problems to become their primary focus and as such it becomes a distraction .
Then there are scenarios where we involve ourselves in gossip and lose track of what is really important to us .
it is easy to be lead and consumed by fear especially in this age of social media .
No social media isn’t the issue here ,the issue is your lack of discipline .
You direct your focus where you want it to be so yes you are the pilot and the captain of your ship.
I look at problems as an opportunity for me to monetize my gifts and advance myself .
Problems will always exist
As long as we live we will be faced with problems directly and indirectly so we might as well get used to it .
Problems aren’t going anywhere any time soon ,as a matter a fact challenges will always exist .
Solution providers change the world
Those of us solving problems are the ones changing the world .
You and I know that there is no shortage of problems but there is a shortage of solution providers .
Whilst difficulty is challenging to face I have learned to embrace it .
People are stressed out
When you see people stressed out you should know they are stressed to due to an existing problem .
No one gets stressed for absolutely no reason although somethings spark anger and worry in some people than others quicker than others .
Does it benefit you to being stressed ?
There is no benefit in stressing and worrying about the things you can and can’t control .
Addressing your problems is the best way to alleviate your worries .
Some people don’t want solutions
There are people that complain and create more problems for themselves just to try and get sympathy .
They are the people that know better that choose not to do better .
Most of the problems we encounter today could’ve been avoided had we made better decisions. .
Conclusion
Don’t put yourself in harms way then turn around and act shocked when the outcome negatively impacts .
When you play with fire you get burnt . If you put your hands on a hot stove you know what the outcome is going to be .
It is time to stop making excuses and start taking responsibility ..