• People
• Places
• Things
“Show me your company and that will tell me who you are.”
Everybody that you interact with in life does it for particular reasons.
Some people will be in your life temporarily while others are there for you through thick and thin.
So Why is it that we fight love ? We fight fist and feet against the people who have our best interest yet run into the arms of those that misuse us ?
Why do we deny that we have problems ?
That is absurd .I am guilty of
doing it too so you are not alone in this one.
Mind you I do not do it as much anymore it is more so the lessons I learned from the experience that has enabled me to be here sharing this message with you today .
Do not be ashamed ,There is no time to guilt trip yourself into feeling or doing anything against your will.
Transformation starts today ,It starts with acceptance and repentance.
Acknowledging your faults is a sign of strength not a weakness.
I have been in denial in my life but as the years went by I matured and became more aware.I made a choice to change.
My definition of maturity is not paying bills and being socially active .
My definition of it is taking responsibility of the actions and thoughts that lead to the outcome .
Denial hinders growth but sometimes we become so accustomed to certain habits that we become acclimatized.
We sometimes Like looking for excuses to carry on with the nonsense.
Change requires action which means we have to do therapeutic things.
Therapy is painful but in order to heal we have to exercise the pain away.
The process of it consist of
• Mental
• physical
• Emotional
• Economical
• Relational
When you finally do get it done you feel good about yourself.
Now Everything that I have spoken about thus far I have experienced.
I know a lot about the pit being in the belly of the beast . My mind was in the gutter as I was going fast and furious to no avail.
Being that I know what I know and I have the scars to show I am a testament of God .
I have the powerful message for you today .I have a message of hope one that is guaranteed to inspire you.
I know the ins and outs of the underworld that is why my transition into the “social world” has been successful.
Word of caution; you will find good and bad people any which way you go. Do not be fooled by titles ,color,race because you will lose.
The race card is weapon which is not to be overlooked but one that is used as a tool to divide and conquer .
People will try to approach you from different angles just to get into your kingdom.
This is where they use
• Race
• Economics
• Sex
• Manipulation
to deceive you. But hey …the enemy cannot deceive a person that thinks independently .
So therefore It is my hope that you will have the neccessary tools needed to help you navigate the rough waters by the time you finish reading this post.
Follow my 15 point blue print
Take off the mask
What doesn’t come out in the wash comes out in the rinse.
Do not hesitate to stamp your feet ! Do not compromise strength and integrity ..be authentic.
Ignore
The haters are going to show up . This does not mean that you have to entrain them .You dismiss them ! Block them out and focus on your game . Keep chipping away at your goals regardless of who is around.This does not mean that you should let them in on your secrets either.Keep your cards to your chest ,keep your poker face .
Energy
(look out for the energy disruptors) These are people who create problems for every solution.
• Complainers
• Race baiters
• Liars
It does not matter who they are ,you should keep them at a distance .If You let them enter your kingdom it is a rap….shame on you …your fault . They are bull stinkers through and through so Protect your interest.
Focused
It is so easy to get caught up into the moment .This usually happens when you get distracted by friends,family,party life etc…
When you lose focus you lose site of what is important and your goals take a hit in the process.
Action
( Action speaks louder than words) Let your results do the talking . I like when people say “talk is cheap.” Take note that (talk is expensive too)
Maturity
Maturity means a lot to me . There are things that used to trigger me off that no longer do .In the past I would fly off the handle and lose my composure in a heart beat.Now I sit back and realize that people will push my buttons.
Up to this day they still do. The key take away here is to recognize and identify problems so that you can rectify them
Sanity
If Lose money you can recoup your lost but if you lose your mind all hell breaks loose.
Your sanity is precious ,no person or thing should be allowed to enter that space .It is the holy place !
So do what is uplifting , feed your soul. Just know that Happiness is healthy .
Make progress
Anyone living on the face of the earth can make a point . But here lyes the differrence.The person making progress is the one with the solution ,this is the one that is going to move forward in life. So choose your battles wisely.
Be patient
Regardless of how successful you are or what you think.. I know one thing for certain (patience is a virtue) One wrong move can set you back but if you are vigilant you can go real far .
Let me give a xample ; Driving a car at 100 mph might get to your destination faster but the risk of running at that speed increases your chances of getting into an accident.
Take for instance you and I are travelling the same distance but at different speeds . This time I am travelling at 20 miles per hour .I have 2 advantages
• I am Less likely to be breaking the speed limit
• I get to learn and see more things along the route.
This is way that we should Trust the process and know that our time will come.
Do not beAntagonistic
Be aware of the wolf in sheep clothing.There will be people that question your every move.There will be people who challenge every solution each step of the way.
The way how you handle the “antagonist” is by not giving them the time of the day.
Some people need fuel to get going so they look for ways to instigate growth in their life.In other words they make moves by starting controversy.
So do not engage with them negatively show resilience and they will fade away.
Be assertive
Kindness is not a weakness when you have limits and boundaries. The problem with some of us is that we allow others to take advantage of us.You have to put your foot down,otherwise people will run over you like a stampede.
Stand firm !
Manifest
Believing is not enough ,knowing is not enough so we must do . The one thing that I know for sure is that (manifestation) is real. When the mind is programmed and you take action you are manifesting your reality so the thoughts that your mind receives is what it usually believes .
Speak
Think
Do
And that is it !
Be Brave
I am not sitting here asking you to be a super hero however I am telling you to be “bold” .There will be times when you feel as if there is no where to turn but I want you to know you are the greatest source of inspiration that you need.
From sun rise to sunset on your daily walk you are in control of your thoughts feelings and actions.The mind is a powerful resource that each and everyone is blessed with. Use it to the utmost .
Get back up
If you Make a mistake ,make sure that you get up and dust yourself back off again.Do not think for one minute that you will go along in life ,achieve the highest accolades without facing difficulty.
Failure does not discriminate .
Look at the big picture.
So many of us lose our way because we want success here and now. This is why you have to plan ahead of time.
Set yourself a few target goals .(know where you want to be five ten years from now) Mark these goals down .Then Choose the ones that you value the most . After choosing and defining your reasons spend time building them.
Most of all be patient.
Vent
One of the problems that I see some of my fellow beings having faced up to this day including myself is releasing anger.
Some of us keep things bound up in us and have no known stress relief outlet to release the anger.
• Exercise
• Running
• Walking
• Meditation
• Music
• Vacation
Could help with the stresses of life to help ease the tension so it isn’t as bad when the problems do pop up.
Learn to say no
If you want something you have to go and get it .If anyone else wants something done they should go get it too.It is not your job to get it for them because if you do all you are doing is helping them form bad habits.
Here is something else that I want you to know ( You are entitled to say “yes” and “no” ) you are not obligated to appease everyone but yourself. Whether it is convenient or not learn to say no to people without explaining yourself.
Remember the foundation.
You will be successful .Sometimes we allow success to get to our heads and forget the people who were there for us during our darkest moments. I love seeing people achieve their goals, I love achieving mines too. Success attracts people to you for good and bad reasons .
You have to use wisdom to pick out the snakes that wither or else they will spike you with venom.Not everyone that smiles in your face has your best interest at heart.
Conclusion
As individuals we must take initiative to uproot the pain ,the sufferings we endured otherwise we will continue on carrying the heavy burdens of the past.
Hence why we need not to be in a state of denial.Denial is delusional and dangerous as it can lead on to even bigger problems.
Growth comes with acceptance, acceptance of who you are, along with the things you need to do to improve in your life.
The time is now, you are long overdue for change .You know full well that the life style you are living is not healthy.
But There is always hope, we just need to be willing to make the choice .
Life is the biggest teacher ,reality is here to stay so you might aswell buckle up.
Everything that evolves inner change has to do with you which benefits your loved ones and your community. A better you , a better me means a better world .We can only do our part .
As humans we have a long ways to go but I am optimistic and I know that we have great potential.
The world will never be perfect neither am I expecting it to be.All I am asking is that you and I take responsibility of our actions.
Two of us making a change is a big difference including loads of other people making progress which is why individual change is so important. we are literally multiplying .
One thing about change that I think we should know is that change is constant .The root of change is learning .As long as you and I are on earth we have the opportunity to learn so We must be obedient and humble .
When we are willing we are less likely to resist change and wisdom.
A close mind is a person that is not willing to learn so therefore persons with such mindsets cannot grow.
You have the power and authority to do all things through the power of God .Do not let the troubles of life stress you.
You have a life to live and I am encouraging you to live it to the utmost.
Let me know what you think about this post .What do you think is needed for mankind as a whole to live life on better terms ?
Shout out loud and clear in the comment section below !