In order to  be successful you must learn from those that inspire you ,model their behaviour and put your  plan of action to work.

Reality is that you cannot reach any goal without making moves.If you would rather waite for a miracle go ahead but just remember that faith without works is dead.

You can sit here and play  victim ,dwell on the past ,but be warned that you cannot  heal or make progress  at a stand still.

This post isn’t aimed at anyone that has been subject to abuse  moreso to those of you that refuse to take initiative to improve upon your situation.

I am not playing things down either, so rest assured  that I know there are some of you that have had your  fair share of ups and downs .

I have served time in West Gate Correctional facility ,so I know what it is like to be in a place where all seems lost.

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Well I am here to let you know that there is hope for you no matter where you are  .Change  can only take place with action, when you  take action you take control over your life .

I am going to share the  10 habits you need  to be successful

Take action

Make wise decisions and calculated moves ,in some cases your best bet might be to postpone your next move but not at the expense of progress.

Like if you are in a  rut or routine that isn’t getting you closer to your goal hit the reset button emmediately.

Somethings you just shouldn’t allow per iod,For example if you are in an abusive relationship there is a threat on your well-being from an emotional,physical,spiritual stand point.These kinds of things will hinder your growth.You have to let go of anything that is holding you back  if you want to be successful.

Be you

The only approval that you need is from thy self.If you don’t love yourself no onelse will ,the same people that you are trying to appease are the same people  that will exploit your weakness.

So put yourself first second and third next to your kids ,Learn to appreciate who you are as a person ,make changes where necessary  to better yourself.Other than that keep being you .

Read

This a sure good way to increase and expand your mind .The body needs nutrients to function so does the mind.The difference here is that knowledge is  the apetite for the mind. And yes I do know that a well balanced meal can help in terms of helping one to think clearly.

To close this tip I am advising you to go to your local library to find a book to read.

Stay away from negativety

The blame game is popular in soicety, it doesn’t get you far.I know one thing for sure “You will never blame your way to the top ” because it is like changing gears into reverse in hopes of going forward.

These are the  kinds of people that spend their time bashing others without regard to the other persons feelings, on top of that they assume to know everything.

In addition to that they aren’t making progress in any way .I have been in the exact same position as some of the people that I have spoken about until I decided to accept responsibility for my actions ,it was at this point that I started making progress.

Make it happen

You can sit down ,Remenise about your dream all you want ,successful people take initiative to get things started in a moralistic way .Reality in your mind is one thing ,action of the thoughts  in your  mind is another. You cannot get a result without trying ,you would most likely be in the same position that you started if you don’t try.

Say less

The empty barrell makes the most noise,I like  to use the  empty barrell terminology  as comparison  between the haves and have nots.

Somehow the  havenots believe that they are entitled to handouts,some of them think  that the haves just woke up successful.While  the havenots sit and waite for opportunity to knock on their doors the haves take responsibility of their life so that they can move forward.

Remember in life their are choices no matter if you complain or not,complaining might get you temporary results if your lucky but at the end of it all you still need to work on you.

Prioritize

If it isn’t close family or emergency call don’t stop what you are doing .You need to set  time aside to relax,work on you,your goals and family.

What you don’t want to do is neglect yourself  .There is only one you ,there will never be another you so put yourself first.I have seen cases where people put other peoples needs ahead of their own only to end up stressed ,feeling used.This is what happens when you priotitize the needs of others before yours.

SAY Nno

I have been told no plenty of times ,no one has to say yes to  any of us .If you continuously say yes  people will take advantage of you.

I know that some of us have been conditioned to think that saying no is a cardinal  sin.

Eventhough it might be hard saying no, you have go to do it sometimes to protect your genuiness other-wise people will show you less respect. Those that don’t respect you saying no to them have no respect for you in the first place.

Practice what you preach

Do not ask others to do what you are not willing to do for yourself ,this is flat out hypocritical ,how are you supoose to lead by example living a life of false pretense ?

Your actions dictate whether or not you are willing and able to get things done ,so I urge you to lead by example, be true to yourself and walk with integrity.

Face your fears

Fear is normal ,to not have fear is normal too so you need to balance your fears and lack of fear.

I know  that there are times when you start to doubt yourself because you are human like me ,up to this day I am faced with opposition but it is normal and I am willing to navigate through the storms of life.

I want  to here from you in the comment section below.